Dating a borderline woman
Also, the more severe a person’s BPD symptoms are the less satisfaction their partner reports.
In addition, research has also shown that BPD symptoms are associated with a greater number of romantic relationships over time, and a higher incidence of unplanned pregnancies in women.
However, they can also shift suddenly to feeling smothered and fearful of intimacy, which leads them to withdraw from relationships.
The result is a constant back-and-forth between demands for love or attention and sudden withdrawal or isolation.
The emotions may result in frantic efforts to avoid abandonment, such as pleading, public scenes, and even physically preventing the other person from leaving.
Another common complaint of loved ones in borderline relationships is lying.
Sometimes partners in a BPD relationships are helped by couples therapy.
In addition to couples therapy, for the person with BPD, there are therapies that have been shown to be effective in terms of helping with relationships: Dialectal behavior therapy (DBT) DBT is a form of cognitive behavioral therapy that relates a person's thinking to their behavior.
If you are considering starting a relationship with someone with BPD, or are in one now, you need to educate yourself about the disorder and what to expect.
Often they have many positive qualities that can make them great romantic partners some of the time.
Furthermore, many people who have been in a romantic relationship with someone with BPD talk about how fun, exciting, and passionate a BPD partner can be.
Another BPD symptom that particularly impacts relationships is called abandonment sensitivity.
This can lead those with BPD to be constantly watching for signs that someone may leave them and to interpret even a minor event as a sign that abandonment is imminent.